found at 8.00 this morning that my ex-boyfriend’s ex-bandmate committed suicide two days ago. this struck me as incredibly sad despite the fact that the only memory i have of him was him adding me on facebook and everyone i know telling me to delete him because he was a girlfriend basher (hence being an ex-bandmate). i deleted him even though i didn’t know him well enough to make my own judgement of him and was using everyone else’s opinions to form mine. shit.
